“What I want is to be needed. What I need is to be indispensable to somebody. Who I need is somebody that will eat up all my free time, my ego, my attention. Somebody addicted to me. A mutual addiction.”—Chuck Palahniuk, Choke (via larmoyante)
I’m telling you that you are going to reach an age when you realize you must step off your pedestal and accept the reality of life, love and dating.
You do not deserve a perfect man; no one does. You deserve someone who likes you for your flaws, someone who is willing and capable to see past your imperfections and continually love you for everything that makes you unique. And you can only find that once you, yourself, give up the idea of the ideal man
““It’s okay to be sad when you mess up, but don’t dwell for too long. The mistake has already been made, and you can’t erase the fact that it happened. You can either learn from it or mope about it. The choice is yours, but remember, we are only human; we were born to make mistakes. Simply put, if you have never made a mistake in your life, then that means that you have never taken a risk. Taking risks means that you go outside of your comfort zone – that you go outside of your boundaries. The most successful people are the ones who are not afraid to give it their all and possibly humiliate themselves greatly in front of others. It’s like that one saying, ‘The person who asks a question is a fool for five minutes, but the person who never asks and remains silent is a fool forever.’ You choose the way you want to live your life.” -”—Cynthia Amy Tang
What’s Longer than Mother’s Love? What’s Lovely than sister Fight? Which Pillow is better than lover’s lap? What’s Warmer than dad’s Hug? What’s Sweeter than a Baby’s kiss? What’s Tastier than Mom’s Cooking? What’s stronger than Friends shoulders?
Ans: There is no substitute for these things. Never Miss them in Life..